{"id":15066,"date":"2017-03-30T14:25:00","date_gmt":"2017-03-30T18:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/hameblog\/2017\/03\/30\/peace-love-and-understanding\/"},"modified":"2025-09-12T07:50:34","modified_gmt":"2025-09-12T10:50:34","slug":"peace-love-and-understanding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/2017\/03\/30\/peace-love-and-understanding\/","title":{"rendered":"Peace, Love, and Understanding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was going to post this in response to a comment on Facebook, but, honestly, I just don&#8217;t want to get into this there.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>(In response to someone&#8217;s friend saying that their civil conversations about veganism have really sunk in for him &#8212; after I read another piece by someone condemning vegans who don&#8217;t go to protest marches.)<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>This is a much smarter &#8220;long game&#8221; than getting into the pissing contest of judging people for not being &#8220;vegan enough&#8221;. Ugh!<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>I understand being angry, but directing that anger back at the community is not helpful.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>I just ate a delicious piece of vegan strawberry &#8220;cheesecake&#8221;. That&#8217;s a pretty winning way to introduce people to veganism.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>Activism is important, but it&#8217;s the thin edge of the wedge. A vegan shouting at me for not being an activist just makes me want to leave Veganism(TM) behind. It&#8217;s a page from the Westboro Baptist school of marketing.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>Peace and love are my jam &#8212; and are my work as a vegan, because, for me, that&#8217;s what veganism is about. That includes trying to create a space where the listener can experience and understand the peace and love that motivate compassion. If it&#8217;s anger, shaming, and judgment &#8212; well, I get why someone turns away from that, regardless of how &#8220;right&#8221; the speaker may be.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>Nobody wants to experience themselves as wrong, so our job is to invite people to be part of something better and show them a vision of how they can create a part of that peaceful future right now.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>In a confusing world, this one is very simple &#8212; unless we insist on turning it into yet another bit of partisan infighting horseshit.<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was going to post this in response to a comment on Facebook, but, honestly, I just don&#8217;t want to get into this there. (In response to someone&#8217;s friend saying that their civil conversations about veganism have really sunk in for him &#8212; after I read another piece by someone condemning vegans who don&#8217;t go [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15066","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15066","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15066"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15066\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15066"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15066"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15066"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}