{"id":14499,"date":"2022-06-07T11:04:00","date_gmt":"2022-06-07T15:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/hameblog\/2022\/06\/07\/opinions-are-like\/"},"modified":"2025-09-12T07:50:58","modified_gmt":"2025-09-12T10:50:58","slug":"opinions-are-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/2022\/06\/07\/opinions-are-like\/","title":{"rendered":"Opinions Are Like&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<p>I was searching for a Strategic Coach article\u00a0yesterday, which brought up the quarterly book of the same name that I illustrated, which led to a listing on Goodreads (about our mass-market book,\u00a0<em>also<\/em>\u00a0of the same name &#8212; confusing), which led me to seeing reviews of my last book,\u00a0<em>Finitude<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><em>OOF!<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>God, people are mean. And of the handful of reviews there, two really,\u00a0<em>really<\/em>\u00a0didn&#8217;t like it and said why in detail. They had valid points, but it was totally a kick in the nuts. The only emotional athletic support cup was that I&#8217;m not trying to write novels anymore. But seeing as I still feel compelled to tell stories in various forms, it&#8230;\u00a0<em>gave me pause<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>One really has to learn not to care, eh? The locus of our creativity is inside ourselves, and to a degree we should be the only audience we&#8217;re writing for.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>But still. But still. The world, the marketplace, the potential to reach more people &#8212; it all means putting the work out there.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Happily, I&#8217;m in a fairly good place right now, so I&#8217;m feeling much more resilient and &#8220;Ehh, feck off, whatever&#8221; about it than I would have a short time ago.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>As Mr Aristotle said&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><code><strong><em>Criticism is something we can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.<\/em><\/strong><\/code><\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was searching for a Strategic Coach article\u00a0yesterday, which brought up the quarterly book of the same name that I illustrated, which led to a listing on Goodreads (about our mass-market book,\u00a0also\u00a0of the same name &#8212; confusing), which led me to seeing reviews of my last book,\u00a0Finitude. OOF! God, people are mean. And of the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14499","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14499"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14499\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14499"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14499"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hame.ink\/blether\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14499"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}